How to Approach your partner on the First Night of Marriage

Your Partner is Special....Special People deserve a Royal Treatment on a Royal Event of their life

Everyone has gazillion fantasies when it comes to what will they do on their first night of marriage. Many simply feel the power of having someone from the opposite sex and think that they can now fulfill all their intrigues and fantasies related to sex and sexual activity. Others think that like in life it is important to proceed slowly and steadily as hurrying into things can simply ruin things and the associated charm and excitement of the first night of marriage.

So, the million dollar question accompanied with a whole lot of question remains what are the dos and don’ts that need or need not be done when you are finally there with your life partner, feeling a sense of possession and at the same time keeping a control on the adrenaline gushing in your bloodstream. Here are some things that you may find helpful when it comes to making the first night of your marriage a truly memorable one.

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• Be careful and sensitive

Even though you are life partners for life, make sure that none of you make an attempt to bump into each other (this goes for boys in particular) as they are found to be more voracious when it comes to the ‘love making’ part of the night. I have been through cases when the male was simply in too much hurry to seek sexual pleasure that he humiliated himself in front of his wife the first day and she disgusted with his sex hungry attitude decided that it was better to go to his parents.

  

Since your wife has become a new member of your family, it is important that you make her feel that her addition is significant to you and your family, make her feel important. Above all realize the fact that doing sex on the first night of your marriage is nothing something mandatory. Patience is the key to success, resist yourself to the moment when both of you actually feel the need of having the union and then celebrate the magic moment.

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• Communication is the key to caress

So now when it’s decided that sex is not something per-requisite on the first day of marriage, then what are you supposed to do. In one and simplest of all words, communicate. Communication is the key to caress your partner on the first day of your marriage. Talk to your partner about her likes, dislikes, what does she love and doesn’t, even the kind of music that she likes to listen.

In addition to this I also feel that the first night is an important opportunity for males in particular to tell their wife about the situation of their family, the issues that they face and how through cooperation and by making small compromises they can lead a happy and harmonious life. Do not forget the key tip that the woman on the first night wants to get a commitment from you about how a man can contribute in adding color to the new life that she is about to start with him.

Remember this

Something that you should never forget is that the woman never forgets what a man tells her on the first night of marriage. They can either hurt her or help her make your life more beautiful and loving than before. Therefore, choose your words wisely.

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